chicks with titles....

[Bigmike]

At what point would you consider a chick a slut? What justifies labeling a women with this title. My girl and I were arguing this last night... she thinks she's a slut because she's screwed 4 times as many people as me. I don't know what to tell her lol I don't see her as a "slut" but she calls herself one all the time like out of guilt. Love to hear some input.

[Sherk]

Has she fucked a lot of the people you know? Was she with someone different every weekend? Does she use sex for a mans attention? Those ate big slut red flags. But just because she might have been at one point in her life doesn't mean she can't change her ways and loose the title.

[Bigmike]

Has she fucked a lot of the people you know? Was she with someone different every weekend? Does she use sex for a mans attention? Those ate big slut red flags. But just because she might have been at one point in her life doesn't mean she can't change her ways and loose the title.

Well put! I've tried to tell her the number is not really what it's about. Hers is not ridiculous or anything... I told her being a slut is all in how you conduct yourself and your sex life. Can't seem to beat it into her no matter what, it always comes out at some point. She seems to like comparing my past sex life with hers and she needs to chill with that. Driving herself crazy.

[bigcivic]

Tell her.its not her fault she had better game than u bro lol

[Vicious 13]

I don't think how many partners u have had means anything

[Bigmike]

Tell her.its not her fault she had better game than u bro lol

Lol she's an ex fat kid who lost 72lbs before we met... literally right before we met so idle how she pulled the number she's got but w/e.

With you vicious not the number its just in how you conduct yourself.

[Vicious 13]

I looked it up it says a slit would be more of a prostitute or a street walker

[Sherk]

Lol she's an ex fat kid who lost 72lbs before we met... literally right before we met so idle how she pulled the number she's got but w/e.

With you vicious not the number its just in how you conduct yourself.

Women can get laid 1000x easier than men no matter their weight. Us men are dirty dogs and will plow anything, to your standards of course. Not saying anything about your girl bro so no disrespect but you'd be surprise how many men are chubby chasers. I've had a few big girls and one of them was the best sex I ever had. I was in Vegas and beat guts with a married women in the bathroom of the Toby Keith bar. She was a big girl but well proportioned with huge ass tits.

[Bigmike]

Women can get laid 1000x easier than men no matter their weight. Us men are dirty dogs and will plow anything, to your standards of course. Not saying anything about your girl bro so no disrespect but you'd be surprise how many men are chubby chasers. I've had a few big girls and one of them was the best sex I ever had. I was in Vegas and beat guts with a married women in the bathroom of the Toby Keith bar. She was a big girl but well proportioned with huge ass tits.

Lol no offense taken man, she lost the weight hooked up with me and a pack of AL var later looked worlds different. I'm proud of her and happy to be with her. Honestly her amount of experience is probably what attributes to the best sex I've ever had. Just don't know what to tell her when she goes on these rants about she's a slut BC she's screw four times as many people as me. My reply is typically "not everybody can be a hermit gym rat like me" but it's not working anymore.

[Sherk]

Show her this thread. It's got opinions from people who have no idea who she is so its an unbiased opinion. How she conducted her self in the past doesn't say anything about her character today. I use to be a pot head pill poppin alcoholic coke head that couldn't get by without drugs and physically hurting people for the thrill of it, but now I'm on the complete opposite side of the spectrum. I'm clean and sober and don't want to cause harm to anyone anymore unless it's unavoidable or deserved. So my past doesn't say I'm a drug addict criminal. It says I have a past and grew as an adult from it. Same thing for her just different past.

[bigcivic]

Great way to put it sherk was bout the same as u. Glad we all grow up

[bodywar]

their call fuckin pigs,my way!!

[Ironguruera]

I agree with what the guys have said. It's about how the sex went down. Was it one night stands. Several guys a week etc. If most of them were guys she dated for a bit then no worries.

I think what makes a girl a slut is jumping from one guy to the next with no intentions of dating them. One night stands Etc.

As long as it doesn't bother u who cares!

I hate that talk with girls lol. I had one girl say well if I count the 2 wham bam thank you maam's......I was like ok let me stop u right there lmao . Lets just leave it at we both are not Virgins and to never fucking talk about this again lmao! There is no good number lol.

[Bigmike]

Exactly man... it was so fucked up when she brought it up the first time. We just finished having sex and she wants to call herself a slut after she randomly asked me how many people I'd been with. Then she proceeded to tell me a lot of shit I didn't want to hear. I like the idea we are both not virgins... let's leave it at that. Now it never fails I spend one day a week convincing her she's not a slut. I've even had to hold back from getting mad, wanted to tell her if I'm the only person your screwing congrats your not a slut unless you've got something you need to tell me.

[Ironguruera]

Exactly man... it was so fucked up when she brought it up the first time. We just finished having sex and she wants to call herself a slut after she randomly asked me how many people I'd been with. Then she proceeded to tell me a lot of shit I didn't want to hear. I like the idea we are both not virgins... let's leave it at that. Now it never fails I spend one day a week convincing her she's not a slut. I've even had to hold back from getting mad, wanted to tell her if I'm the only person your screwing congrats your not a slut unless you've got something you need to tell me.

I hear ya. It fucks with your head bad or at least does mine. I had a girl totally bull shit me then let the cat out of the bag and swore she had already told me that. lol she could tell I was fucking pissed. She said some of the sweetest nicest shit any girl has ever said to me and she made it better. Still in my head I was like omg I'm with a whore lmao. I mean we all know we are not number 1-3 but when they are like ohh I ran through 15 guys in 2 months or some shit after a bad break up...really makes u start thinking about shit. like I might as well be with a stripper or a hooker at least I full on know what I'm getting into lol.

[kazman68]

Women can get laid 1000x easier than men no matter their weight. Us men are dirty dogs and will plow anything, to your standards of course. Not saying anything about your girl bro so no disrespect but you'd be surprise how many men are chubby chasers. I've had a few big girls and one of them was the best sex I ever had. I was in Vegas and beat guts with a married women in the bathroom of the Toby Keith bar. She was a big girl but well proportioned with huge ass tits.

I'm with you Sherk, I think it's becoming less embarrassing to say you like heavy chicks(I love all women) BBW and Mature Porn has really gained popularity.I also have very little to no standards..well I wouldn't fuck any dirty nasty pussy..But all sizes,shapes,colors, etc.. are fair game. Also my ex ex g/f is imo a slut...she leads guys on fucks them to get them hooked and uses them as much as she can, paying her bills,letting her drive their cars, giving her money..when they catch on and stop, she simply moves onto another. She may as well be a hooker. That to me is a slut..I'd say she is in triple digits from what Iv;e heard.

[Nelson303]

Well guys. If what Kaz says is true I'm a huge slut. Holly shit. Just wanted to come clean.

[kazman68]

Well guys. If what Kaz says is true I'm a huge slut. Holly shit. Just wanted to come clean.

I never said I was an angel..I don't like to spew out numbers.. I admit I'm an old horn dog,slut etc...my g/f puts it more eloquently "an aficionado of women" .

[Sherk]

I'm with you Sherk, I think it's becoming less embarrassing to say you like heavy chicks(I love all women) BBW and Mature Porn has really gained popularity.I also have very little to no standards..well I wouldn't fuck any dirty nasty pussy..But all sizes,shapes,colors, etc.. are fair game. Also my ex ex g/f is imo a slut...she leads guys on fucks them to get them hooked and uses them as much as she can, paying her bills,letting her drive their cars, giving her money..when they catch on and stop, she simply moves onto another. She may as well be a hooker. That to me is a slut..I'd say she is in triple digits from what Iv;e heard.

We might be Eskimo brothers. I think we might have been with the same bitch lol. Just joking. That sounds cumuli at though. I was with someone like that for 2 weeks.

[Nelson303]

Funny. Rick Collins tweeted test makes people more honest. And on test I honestly want to have sex with everything. And I tell them. But everyone has stages in there life. No need to label yourself from the past. Label yourself with where you are going today and in the future. Not the past hundreds of sex acts. Right??

[kazman68]

We might be Eskimo brothers. I think we might have been with the same bitch lol. Just joking. That sounds cumuli at though. I was with someone like that for 2 weeks.

I was with her a lot longer, thinking with my cock not my head. Sad thing was she was beautiful at one time...I mean very sexy...now she looks wore down and run down.(40) I think her lifestyle is catching up with her, she's an alcoholic, smokes constantly now, and fucks anything that moves..Like I said it's sad she could have been so much more, some of the guys she has been with I mean I'm not Brad Pitt or anything but jeez absolute slime-balls..she is 100% certifiable white trash, she's adopted and her parents are wealthy good honest people, she had a (not natural) brother who was adopted as well..and he turned out to be a very good man. Pat (her mom) went to a psyc doc and thought it was her fault, the doc assured her she wasn't my ex ex started lying at 5 about bs stuff..and it continues to this day, she is a pathological liar. The doc also said there is a 17 yr older version of her out there (meaning her mom). Sad...and to Nelson Iv;e been like that my whole life and it continues to this day, some guys are just hornier than others and will put aside physical beauty or what other guys determine it as. My buddies used to think a girl was butt ugly and I would think she not bad at all I would/will do her :)...I admit luckily my past 2 g/f have been very 'understanding'. Sorry guys I tend to go off on rants/talk too much..

[red crayon]

I think its a time thing. What matters is how Your Girl is today. I think sex is like Baseball. Do you want to have a rookie or a superstar? Baseball players dont get to be a home run king by sitting on the bench and watching it happen. They have to get in the game and swing the bat several times. The players skill has to be something that they learn with lots of practice. Some need more practice than others. They may change teams several times until they find the one that helps them be the best they can be.
I think women are just like that. Maybe your girl has had several guys to select from but she has you and (I hope) your the one that helps her be the best she can be. Thats really a big compliment to you. Its not easy to do that. Anyone can have sex but not everyone can give satisfaction!

[Bigmike]

I went over last night and gave her something else to think about.... me lol, even convinced her let me take a few pics. Shows some serious trust I must say, I got the whole speech about how I've never let anyone do this and please don't show your friends. Looking at them now I don't even need them... we have sex everyday, so what's the point.

[zedhed]

So where are the dam pics bro? LMAO...
To me a slut is more personality/attitude then how many partners anyone has had.
Sex for the sake of sex more or less = slut. As in a chick doing a row of guys at a bar. Or a chick doing a train. Now to me thats a slut.
A woman that has no self worth and portrays that by being a cum dumpster.

[Bigmike]

Damn bro... you just described my girl friend with that last line. Well at least until she met me, I helped this girl build a level of self worth and confidence she didn't have before me.

[zedhed]

And thats a good thing my good man.
Any time any of us can help anybody in any way. well thats a good thing in my book. And that in and of itself makes us a better human being.