Don't really know how to start this one so i'm just going to blow it out.... I've been offered a job on a new Top Fuel Funny Car team out of Qatar and have been invited to go over there for Christmas with my family and to check things out and we are to leave on the 21st, well life just changed drastically this week. My sister inlaw has a drinking problem and just received 2 yeah 2 more DUI's this last week at the same time, one for being on drugs and one for alcohol and two drug charges on to of that. To make a long story short, she's going to prison for these charges because this is # 5 and 6 DUI, her husband over dosed 6 months ago and passed away and now I have 3 more kids living with me with nowhere else to go. My wife wants me to still go to Qatar because this is my dream job and my opportunity to to get back behind the wheel but I feel like I can't leave my wife behind to handle all the bullshit that was just handed to my family. How one persons selfish choices can affect so many people in so many ways. I've never been away from my wife or family at Christmas time in 22 years. I'm just trying to hold it together right now and be strong dad and husband but inside i'm scrambled. I need a little help figuring this one out.