Opinions on friends husband

[MuscleAddiction]

She had a miscarriage and he had just got fired from a youth pastors job because of parents complaints. He told her he was busy cleaning his office out and to have her mother drive her to the hospital. Her Brother died of a massive heart attack. She needed to drive six hours to his hometown to be there with the family. He would not take off work until the end of the day to drive her there. So she had to sit at home alone all day grieving the death of her brother.the day before She left him she went to his office crying and try to sit on his lap to tell him that things need to change. And he was too busy on the phone trying to find someone to water a football field to talk to her. He told her he would talk to her when he got home. That was all it took for her. Then she left. He is court ordered to keep all the money in the joint checking account but he is hiding the money and he is forcing her to depend on him when she needs something. The plus side to this is their house is paid for and she will probably walk away with about $300,000 when it's all said and done. Plus alimony plus child support. But it will be a long custody battle probably because he is trying to save face with the church and make everyone think he is super dad when he has never done anything with the kids or family. He still has his and her picture posted all over Facebook making everyone think they are still together.. He's just a jerk!

WOW!!! He seems like someone who doesn't deserve your friend...and she never deserved that kind of horrible treatment. Karma is a bitch and he will get his...just be there for your friend and help her as much as you can which sounds like you already are.

[BigBones]

First thing that comes to mind - his religion doesn't allow/bless being gay/lesbian yet he is.
There's nothing wrong with it IMO but he also probably has not way out/doesn't know it's okay to put aside his faith.

My 2 cents. Lol.

[lileight]

Well I gonna probably get flamed for this. But I think being gay is wrong just my opinion everybody has a right to live like they want. But I am a man and I love PUSSY. Far as being baptist preacher my first x father was a baptist preacher. They where pretty well off he never hid anything from his wife. He did give God all the credit for his blessings. But this guy is just screwed up. Yes I believe he is a fag and just wants the money he gets from the church. I hope her the best she needs to get the kids the hell out of there. And take him for everything she can cause he is a piece if shit. And this is coming from a man that is going thru a divorce. But he is one screwed up guy.

[Encino_Mang]

If all of that is true and not bullshit that's one creepy fucker

[Ironguruera]

The sleeping with the 12 yr old boy was where I stopped reading bro.

I would never in 2 trillion years let any of my children alone with any church official like that....ever. Lets not get off topic though.

He is Not into women that is dead obvious. Be shocked if he isn't a pedophile.....not joking. Why would a grown man want to sleep alone with his son?? We are not talking the boy was scared and wants to come sleep with mommy and daddy in their bed......or the boy was scared and wanted daddy to comfort him to sleep.

Forget red flags....that's a fucking red banner flown by a plane bro!

[Fit Guru]

I have passed your comments on to her. Here's what's really strange. He has ALWAYS been a youth pastor!! Yea so he likes little boys? Oops yea he likes little boys.she refuses to ask her son if he's been touched.she is a very sweet forgiving woman. She has gotten a little meaner but mean for her is saying "I don't appreciate what your doing" where mine would be "you stupid mother fucker stay away from our son"!!!

[Fit Guru]

Churches protect their own. I bet the church he was dismissed from because the parents didnt like him I bet their were complaints from the children and instead of drawing attention to the church they just let him go.

[Ironguruera]

I have passed your comments on to her. Here's what's really strange. He has ALWAYS been a youth pastor!! Yea so he likes little boys? Oops yea he likes little boys.she refuses to ask her son if he's been touched.she is a very sweet forgiving woman. She has gotten a little meaner but mean for her is saying "I don't appreciate what your doing" where mine would be "you stupid mother fucker stay away from our son"!!!

Yeah for the boys sake I hope I'm
Wrong bro !! Believe that!

when I was a like 13 my mom worked for the local city. I went to see her at work and this weird creepy mother fucker that worked there gave me this beyond creepy look. I could tell he was evil and twisted as they come. He kept trying to talk to me.
I told my mother how fucking creepy he was. She knew who I meant and said she got the same vibe off him.

He was like a janitor/youth Rec dept person. Also volunteered as a cop........
He had a USB flash drive linked to his work pc with shit tons of kiddie porn on it from a ton of kids in town. He was having parties and drugging and boozing kids up.....tore the town up.

I could tell with one look that piece of shit was pure evil even back then.

Some ppl don't wanna hear or see the truth.

Hope I'm wrong...

[SisterSteel]

She needs to leave her husband, period. She also needs to get her children out of there to.

[ineedtogrow]

I have passed your comments on to her. Here's what's really strange. He has ALWAYS been a youth pastor!! Yea so he likes little boys? Oops yea he likes little boys.she refuses to ask her son if he's been touched.she is a very sweet forgiving woman. She has gotten a little meaner but mean for her is saying "I don't appreciate what your doing" where mine would be "you stupid mother fucker stay away from our son"!!!

I think she needs to have a sit down with her son and seriously ask him about it. if her son comes out with it then there is no chance in hell that he will get the kids and hopefully goes to prison and taken away from that position of power working with kids. I would hang the mother fucker if I ever found out somebody was doing shit like that with my kids.