I am getting a lot of information from AM, OD, Doc, Orange, and other who have been reaching out and no have not tried anything topical except this one product I got for her which were basically just essential oils to rub in her clit and labia prior to intercourse which didn't work...was supposed to increase blood flow. Cialis is on the table but have not tried. We have tried Sildenafil oral but didn't work either. I literally spent like an hour one night playing with her and going down on her and she came close a couple times but then just faded away before climax. Don't mind putting in the work lol, pleasurable for me, just it's been over a dozen times having sex with no orgasm for her