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chesty
04-08-2016, 10:36 PM
My mom passed away this morning. Somehow I knew simething wasnt right. I woke up at 6:03am exactly which never happens and could not go back to sleep. Then my brother called. Found out she had a heart attack while paramedics were tending to her at her house when it happened it was at 6 or so this morning.

On way to take care of things

MuscleAddiction
04-08-2016, 10:43 PM
My condolences Chesty, very sorry to hear. Prayers for you and your family brother!

Ironguruera
04-09-2016, 12:34 AM
Sorry for your loss chesty!

Manny1983
04-09-2016, 01:01 AM
My deepest condolences Chesty. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family bro

chesty
04-09-2016, 03:29 AM
Thank you. Appt with the funeral home is at 11 on sat.

mookymonkey
04-09-2016, 05:18 AM
sorry to hear brother... lost someone close on good Friday... still very hard to deal with... mark

Beavis303
04-09-2016, 06:33 AM
Very sorry to hear Chesty. Prayers for you and your family.

Nbencze
04-09-2016, 06:35 AM
im so sorry. my prayers are with you brother.

chesty
04-09-2016, 06:51 AM
Inwish this was 2500 years ago. Death would be a part of life, not the exception to life like it has become. I dont know if it would make it easier but it would be easy to accept. I knew ths day would come, I just thought I would have had 1 more chance to hug her and tell her I lved her.

I wasnt an easy son to raise and I put her thru a lot growing up and after. But I gave her a grandson, my little 3 year old that adored her and she got to see him often but i wish it was 1 more time.

I know she is home now with her mom and dad looking down on us, and is happy now and free of pain and fear. Someday I will join her when it is my turn, but not yet.

Love you mom

Encino_Mang
04-09-2016, 07:08 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this, prayers to you and your family.

baby1
04-09-2016, 07:50 AM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, Chesty. I can only imagine how you must feel... Thoughts are with you all at this difficult time

SFDan
04-09-2016, 11:54 AM
My prayers are with you and your family Chesty.


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Lunchbox
04-09-2016, 12:37 PM
Condolences my friend. My peace find you during this time.

Much love brother

knights
04-09-2016, 02:37 PM
awww Bro, so sorry to hear this. Condolences to you and your family.

xdude
04-09-2016, 03:43 PM
Inwish this was 2500 years ago. Death would be a part of life, not the exception to life like it has become. I dont know if it would make it easier but it would be easy to accept. I knew ths day would come, I just thought I would have had 1 more chance to hug her and tell her I loved her.


My mom died slow , and lingering. My Dad went out to mow the lawn, and dropped dead of a heart attack
So I have been through both types ... I don't know which is worse ..or which is better.

I think it is rougher on the love ones when it is quick , but then if you think about it ,and you know you don't want them to suffer either.

I wish you well, and all you can do is take comfort in knowing at least she didn't suffer long.

best wishes

chesty
04-09-2016, 05:52 PM
Both ways have their advantage I suppose. We set up everything today and dd a private viewing. At first i wasnt sure it was her till i got closer. O was doing good for about a minute the broke down. It isnt what i expected. All i can say is arguing and fighting is useless. Life is too precious to squander it away on meaningless things and chances that put ur life in danger for no good reason. See the doctor, take care of your mind and body and never forget just how fragile we are.

xdude
04-09-2016, 06:35 PM
in my personal experience with death... it is not real until you see the body
and then you start blubbering ...

It has to come out ... I say let it out .. it is ok .. it is therapeutic and I think something you need

I wish you well and hope you get some rest ..
it is a long road until the funeral ..and then there is the days where it kind of just hits you out of the blue
and you think "oh yeah , they are gone"

and those moment of sadness slowly fade

squatpresspull
04-09-2016, 10:05 PM
Condolences brother. My father died a long slow process. I'm scared to death of the time my mother dies.


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chesty
04-09-2016, 11:03 PM
I feel for all those in my shoes or will be. What I dont pike is that as time goes on the pain and hurt slowly fade somehow making it less real until finally generations later you are forgotten.

Ebo10
04-10-2016, 09:15 AM
I'm saddened for your loss. May god bless you and your mother during this journey.

Slayer
04-11-2016, 10:38 AM
Sorry for your loss Chesty.

Big Hoss
04-12-2016, 11:25 AM
Prayers of peace go out to you and your family during your loss brother. Stay strong.