Chest and tricep routines look good. Shoulders not doing much there. I personally seperate tricep and chest day but to each is own. U are on the right track. I add volume some days and lower weights. Other days I add weight and lower reps. Never stay with same crap for too long.
I feel ya on family and life. I train 3 days a week for 1 hr each. Try to hit 1 day on my weekends off that way I'm only away from home 2 nights a week. I'm home more then at the gym. Everyone wins lol. That 5-6 day a week shit is for ppl who compete or are single IMHO.