Little concerned about wife

[Layddually2]

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No she has never done that with her phone before that's why I'm freaking out. Also she had a number of a guy she work with on her phone it got deleted and she flipped out. A few weeks ago she wanted to go to work party even though she doesn't work there anymore they still invited her. She wasn't going to even ask if I wanted to go. And of course this guy is there. In the 7 years we have been married I have not really been jealous because I felt I could trust her. Except a couple times in the last two years. One time she was going to her guy from works bday party and didn't ask me to go and another time she went on a girls night out and didn't let me know where she was going or anything that is not like her. Normally she tells me where she is going when she arrived when she leaves and talks to me on phone till she gets home. This time I don't even know when she got home.

[MuscleAddiction]

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No she has never done that with her phone before that's why I'm freaking out. Also she had a number of a guy she work with on her phone it got deleted and she flipped out. A few weeks ago she wanted to go to work party even though she doesn't work there anymore they still invited her. She wasn't going to even ask if I wanted to go. And of course this guy is there. In the 7 years we have been married I have not really been jealous because I felt I could trust her. Except a couple times in the last two years. One time she was going to her guy from works bday party and didn't ask me to go and another time she went on a girls night out and didn't let me know where she was going or anything that is not like her. Normally she tells me where she is going when she arrived when she leaves and talks to me on phone till she gets home. This time I don't even know when she got home.

I'm sorry bro...looks like the writing is on the wall, and it may have been going on for a while now.

[Manny1983]

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I'm sorry bro...looks like the writing is on the wall, and it may have been going on for a while now.

Yeah looks that way. I'd recommend you get a recovery stick to recover her deleted texts just to make sure. You can get them here http://m.cheatersspyshop.com/phone-a...onitoring.html

[bigcivic]

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Yeah looks that way. I'd recommend you get a recovery stick to recover her deleted texts just to make sure. You can get them here http://m.cheatersspyshop.com/phone-a...onitoring.html

you nailed it bro sorry to hear that shit man keep your head up and we r all here for you brotha

[MuscleAddiction]

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Yeah looks that way. I'd recommend you get a recovery stick to recover her deleted texts just to make sure. You can get them here http://m.cheatersspyshop.com/phone-a...onitoring.html

Man the technology they come up with to catch cheaters...I love it!!! Great find Manny!!! Been cheated on before and it sucks...worst feeling ever!!!

[Layddually2]

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Holy shit wife said I'm being a little bitch and asked if I have been taking my trt. Oops I forgot my last inj was 100mg two weeks ago. If I don't get atleast 200mg ew I turn into a little bitch and start crying over stupid shit. I we'd to pick up some mast as well I don't do good mentally without it.

[Lunchbox]

Holy shit wife said I'm being a little bitch and asked if I have been taking my trt. Oops I forgot my last inj was 100mg two weeks ago. If I don't get atleast 200mg ew I turn into a little bitch and start crying over stupid shit.

Here's your sign....

Get your head screwed back on brother and go woooooooo that woman!!

[MuscleAddiction]

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Holy shit wife said I'm being a little bitch and asked if I have been taking my trt. Oops I forgot my last inj was 100mg two weeks ago. If I don't get atleast 200mg ew I turn into a little bitch and start crying over stupid shit. I we'd to pick up some mast as well I don't do good mentally without it.

I really do hope it is just that...I will hope that I am wrong and way out of line, but honestly if you really love your wife I would sit her down to talk to her because with a response like that it just passed the blame onto you...and look you immediately took it! I was also the trusting blinded boyfriend in 4 relationships in my past (I am a one woman man and have always been the one who would be in long term relationships of all my friends) that I was cheated on...and in a couple multiple times because I didn't want to believe it was happening to me, I didn't deserve it, I gave my all and let down all my defenses to the girls I cared about...don't want to call it love because what I have now is true love...but was taken advantage of many times and it fucking hurt like hell...even caught one of mine in my own bed with the guy, it sucks when it happens. Just you need to bring this stuff up and you have every right to and she is your wife and should reassure you that she loves you and she would never cheat on you and that you are the only man she wants to be with in her life...if she can't do that bro then there is something else going on under the surface...hear what I am saying? I really do hope the best for you and your marriage, but just don't be blind or in denial...and she gave her life, love, and devotion to you when she said "I do" on your wedding day 7 years ago, that means more than anything when it comes to a husband and wife...call me a helpless romantic, but I will tell you this...there are no questions in my marriage with my wife except "what would you like for dinner?" and "where do you want to go for our anniversary this year?" We are open and honest 100% to each other and I told her whatever we have to do to stay in love is what we are going to do, and unfortunately it was my oldest daughter moving out that really brought us as close as we are together...anyway, the best to you and your wife bro, it is easy to fall in love...to stay in love does take some work!

[bigcivic]

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I really do hope it is just that...I will hope that I am wrong and way out of line, but honestly if you really love your wife I would sit her down to talk to her because with a response like that it just passed the blame onto you...and look you immediately took it! I was also the trusting blinded boyfriend in 4 relationships in my past (I am a one woman man and have always been the one who would be in long term relationships of all my friends) that I was cheated on...and in a couple multiple times because I didn't want to believe it was happening to me, I didn't deserve it, I gave my all and let down all my defenses to the girls I cared about...don't want to call it love because what I have now is true love...but was taken advantage of many times and it fucking hurt like hell...even caught one of mine in my own bed with the guy, it sucks when it happens. Just you need to bring this stuff up and you have every right to and she is your wife and should reassure you that she loves you and she would never cheat on you and that you are the only man she wants to be with in her life...if she can't do that bro then there is something else going on under the surface...hear what I am saying? I really do hope the best for you and your marriage, but just don't be blind or in denial...and she gave her life, love, and devotion to you when she said "I do" on your wedding day 7 years ago, that means more than anything when it comes to a husband and wife...call me a helpless romantic, but I will tell you this...there are no questions in my marriage with my wife except "what would you like for dinner?" and "where do you want to go for our anniversary this year?" We are open and honest 100% to each other and I told her whatever we have to do to stay in love is what we are going to do, and unfortunately it was my oldest daughter moving out that really brought us as close as we are together...anyway, the best to you and your wife bro, it is easy to fall in love...to stay in love does take some work!

you're a very smart man MA

[MuscleAddiction]

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you're a very smart man MA

I would question that sometimes lol...but yes it is the relationships and lifes lessons that build us up to the person we are today that can improve with every experience...and I was just one blessed man to get reinquainted with my wife...yes we went to high school together, lost touch, ran into her at her work, went out, here we are today! Together 12 years, married 9 years, and I have no doubt in my heart that I will grow old...but healthy and strong ...together, and she is everything to me...when you find that feeling with your girl and she reciprocating the same way to you, then you will have that true love, doesn't mean it doesn't take effort, creativity, open minded, and be able to create excitement and keep things sparked as to why you two fell in love years and years to come, and reassurance that you two are meant to spend the rest of your lives together...but is the most beautiful feeling on this earth!!! Our little girl is proof as well, my little angel that has pulled daddy though some tough times along with my wife in the past 7 years...is truly amazing!

But thank you for the comment...like all of us here...still learning everyday!!!

[Layddually2]

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Ok I really feel like an ass. I asked about phone she showed me her text. Some of you know her brother was in a motorcycle wreck well because of that we delayed mine and nephews bday. Well they where planning a surprise party for us when he comes home next week.

[iwrkout]

Time to romance her bro...she is in need, in need of appreciation it sounds like to me...also sounds like she is having some insecurities about you and your lifestyle, by her comment of finding a woman who works out, eats healthy, and such sounds like you two don't share that common lifestyle. My relationship before my wife now was that way, she used to accuse me of living a double life...my gym life and the life with her. Like OG, BB, and Manny said talk to her, but get someone to watch the kids and find a place she would really like and take her away for a weekend...get on neutral ground...and talk, don't initiate sex, let it happen if it does, but most of all have a heart to heart with her, and remind each other why you fell in love in the first place...rekindle your marriage!

Women need attention like men need sex. When my needs are being met.. Attention, romance, and appreciation. I am more than willing to go above and beyond to meet his.

[MuscleAddiction]

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Women need attention like men need sex. When my needs are being met.. Attention, romance, and appreciation. I am more than willing to go above and beyond to meet his.

...and there you go from a woman's perspective! My wife will have this look on her face or a certain body language that I can tell she needs some attention, or even just a hug . These are things that when you are in that true love state are just second nature to identify about your love of your life.

[Lunchbox]

...and there you go from a woman's perspective! My wife will have this look on her face or a certain body language that I can tell she needs some attention, or even just a hug . These are things that when you are in that true love state are just second nature to identify about your love of your life.

It's amazing what a simple, meaningful hug can do for the soul.

[ordawg1]

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Women need attention like men need sex. When my needs are being met.. Attention, romance, and appreciation. I am more than willing to go above and beyond to meet his.

My kind of gal !! I am OK at the attention and appreciation-I kinda suck at the romantic part -so I make up for it with $$$-works for me.^^ Great post-OD