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    Many of experienced some difficult to life challenges life year and we all made it. First off congratulations on making it through another year and second hopefully you came out stronger.

    For me was a very difficult year. We had to move away from my home state of which that is part of the military but is always hard moving away from family when you love being around them so much. Secondly my mother and me had a fallout that put a divide between my family that literally broke my heart, thirdly my wife and I almost divorced as 10yrs in the military finally caught up with our reality and almost called it quits after 11yrs, fourthly my father passed away during the time my wife and I were talking about divorce and literally family broke my heart in two. This man God gave me as my father was my everything and best friend and I miss him badly. Even today I broke down on my ride to work from pure heartbreak.

    However toward the close of the year my wife and I worked through hell itself and rekindle our love and friendship and a baby is in our conversation in the near future.

    My mother and I where able to talk for days after my father passed and our relationship is back to where it should never have left off.

    Our new duty station is awesome and we love it and afforded me and my son to spend quality time together to build a strong bond as that of me and my father.

    I have my precious father's memories forever in my mind. My heart still aches so much from the heartbreak but know that he is with Christ Jesus in no more pain or worry this world tried to put on him.

    I was able to get to know some of you that I didn't know better and create friendships that I know will last a lifetime regardless of where life tries to put us next.

    So this past year in review was life changing yet necessary to prepare me to be the Man that God needs me to be this year. If you not religious of believe in God, that is fine, I am just speaking on my belief and the peace that I have found and felt that there is no way a human emotion IMO opinion can create during a time where I felt my world was literally crashing around me.

    I pray this year for all of us will be more eventful that last, that relationships with family will be healed or taking to the next level, that more happiness than pain will be in our future, that we will grow here as an MC family and others will come here to find love and acceptance regardless of their background, and that we will grow this year in maturity to help someone else who would give up otherwise.

    May this year be our year to be better, love more, judge less and create new friends.
    When I die I want to be called a friend or family member by everyone I came into contact with!!!

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    Made me tear up reading this. Your a great dude Chris
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      Re: May this year be our best year

      God bless you BFAM...thanks for this as yes we all went through some trying times last year but with love, family, friendship, and a healthy lifestyle we made it through stronger than before. Chris you are a great brother and am so happy things are turned around for you, tears and times of being down will surface from time to time, but just remember to smile and know your dad loves you and is proud of you...and will always be with you!!!

      Love ya bro!!!
      Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. (Philippians 2:3)

      We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us! (Philippians 4:13)


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      • #4
        Very well said Chris and MA. Yes we have alo had our difficukt moments thru this last year. But I think that for most if us the good outweighed the not so good. Chris I am so glad for you that you got a good post. That makes such a difference in anybodies life, where they live and if they ate happy there. God willing this year will hold many blessings for us all. As for me and my Bonnie, we are already heading in that direction. The chemo meds that were making her so deathly suddenly dont anymore.
        "Any man who thinks he can be happy and prosperous by letting the Government take care of him, better take a closer look at the American Indian."
        Henry Ford

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          Re: May this year be our best year

          Originally posted by Vicious 13 View Post
          Made me tear up reading this. Your a great dude Chris
          Thanks brother. Your good people to man and am blessed to know you.


          Originally posted by MuscleAddiction View Post
          God bless you BFAM...thanks for this as yes we all went through some trying times last year but with love, family, friendship, and a healthy lifestyle we made it through stronger than before. Chris you are a great brother and am so happy things are turned around for you, tears and times of being down will surface from time to time, but just remember to smile and know your dad loves you and is proud of you...and will always be with you!!!

          Love ya bro!!!
          Thanks MA. Means a lot coming from you brother. I know my dad is with me in memories and is walking in happiness. That gives me peace. My prayer is that everyone I come in contact with leaves with knowing they were loved. I have been humbled this year and where many get mad and angry I welcome it as it shows me God has a great plan for my life and others in my path.

          Love you too my brother.
          When I die I want to be called a friend or family member by everyone I came into contact with!!!

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            Re: May this year be our best year

            Originally posted by zedhed View Post
            Very well said Chris and MA. Yes we have alo had our difficukt moments thru this last year. But I think that for most if us the good outweighed the not so good. Chris I am so glad for you that you got a good post. That makes such a difference in anybodies life, where they live and if they ate happy there. God willing this year will hold many blessings for us all. As for me and my Bonnie, we are already heading in that direction. The chemo meds that were making her so deathly suddenly dont anymore.
            AWESOME MAN. I am literally balling right now for y'all. I know how much you love that girl and my family love y'all dearly. This is making my New Year already better already. Huge her for us man!
            When I die I want to be called a friend or family member by everyone I came into contact with!!!

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              Re: May this year be our best year

              Originally posted by zedhed View Post
              Very well said Chris and MA. Yes we have alo had our difficukt moments thru this last year. But I think that for most if us the good outweighed the not so good. Chris I am so glad for you that you got a good post. That makes such a difference in anybodies life, where they live and if they ate happy there. God willing this year will hold many blessings for us all. As for me and my Bonnie, we are already heading in that direction. The chemo meds that were making her so deathly suddenly dont anymore.
              Originally posted by chrisotpherm View Post
              AWESOME MAN. I am literally balling right now for y'all. I know how much you love that girl and my family love y'all dearly. This is making my New Year already better already. Huge her for us man!
              Bonnie truly is a miracle and an angel...as well as Zed. For her to have survived this long really does show God is here, love prevails, and good people deserve good things. Zed she is here because of you, because of your love, and devotion to her, you both are blessed to have each other, and it is meant to be!!! Everything happens for a reason...and that one change last year we had to deal with gave you the ability to fully focus on what is important...your sweet Bonnie! Nikki and I love you two so very dearly, and are always giving love and hugs from afar!!!
              Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. (Philippians 2:3)

              We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us! (Philippians 4:13)


              MuscleAddiction is a fictitious role-playing character! All information discussed is for entertainment purposes only!

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                Re: May this year be our best year

                Originally posted by chrisotpherm View Post
                Thanks MA. Means a lot coming from you brother. I know my dad is with me in memories and is walking in happiness. That gives me peace. My prayer is that everyone I come in contact with leaves with knowing they were loved. I have been humbled this year and where many get mad and angry I welcome it as it shows me God has a great plan for my life and others in my path.

                Love you too my brother.
                Goes both ways brother...I truly am happy to hear when my good brothers are doing better, feeling stronger emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically...it makes me smile.

                Just like our other brother Beavis who went through his hell as well, brothers like all of you who have shown such strength, adversity, resiliency, and overcame such extremely difficult times gives me hope, keeps my faith, and reminds me that we have a family here that we can lean on in those difficult times. I love you all so very much...we have become so close, and our brotherhood will only get stronger!!!
                Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. (Philippians 2:3)

                We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us! (Philippians 4:13)


                MuscleAddiction is a fictitious role-playing character! All information discussed is for entertainment purposes only!

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                  Re: May this year be our best year

                  im sorry about your pops bro. i buried mine this past year aswell. and for the first time in im life. i feel truly on my own. i still got me mum, but its different. dad gave advice, dad gave insight. dad told you when you did good, and when you were fucking up bad. and even when you were he was there to tell you its gonna work out. i dunno about you but my dad was like a super hero. no cape. just a gnarly beard, beer in hand, and always helping those who needed it. i find its best to not thinbk of him as gone, but more that he lives on in you. so carry that torch. think what would dad do right now? and fucking do it. im sorry for everything thst hsppend man. i actually stopped reading after the dad line. it hit me right in the feels. and i had to say something. gotta go. i got something in my eye

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                  • #10
                    Chris and MA you guyz know I love you both like the family to me that you are.
                    Ptc I am truly sorry for your loss brother. Your hurt is deep but you are healing and for that I am happy for you bro.
                    "Any man who thinks he can be happy and prosperous by letting the Government take care of him, better take a closer look at the American Indian."
                    Henry Ford

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                      Re: May this year be our best year

                      When I lost my step father 9yrs ago it really had a bad affect on me. Even after all these years it still getaway to me sometimes. Healing from something like thus will take years and I'm really happy that it sounds like your going in the right direction. I'm going through the relationship problem with my wife right now and I couldn't imagine loosing my dad at the same time dealing with this. I'm so happy that you didn't just give up and that your fighting through this, Chris. Keep your head up brother, things will get better. I think about all my brothers and sisters here and always wish you all the very best.
                      "Look forward-never look back and enjoy every sandwich -Go get em-OD ALPHA ZILLA"

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by prc603 View Post
                          im sorry about your pops bro. i buried mine this past year aswell. and for the first time in im life. i feel truly on my own. i still got me mum, but its different. dad gave advice, dad gave insight. dad told you when you did good, and when you were fucking up bad. and even when you were he was there to tell you its gonna work out. i dunno about you but my dad was like a super hero. no cape. just a gnarly beard, beer in hand, and always helping those who needed it. i find its best to not thinbk of him as gone, but more that he lives on in you. so carry that torch. think what would dad do right now? and fucking do it. im sorry for everything thst hsppend man. i actually stopped reading after the dad line. it hit me right in the feels. and i had to say something. gotta go. i got something in my eye
                          Completely understand my brother. He was my hero too. We go through things in our lives to help those who otherwise not make it on their own make it through by our love and strong hands pulling them through. Your dad sounds like my pops. Acted tough but would soften up faster than butter. Our fathers love will forever be with us and would want us to share their legacy by being better than them. We can do it bro and if you ever need to talk, cry or scream man, IM HERE!!!
                          When I die I want to be called a friend or family member by everyone I came into contact with!!!

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                          • #14
                            This is why I love MC so much. We will help and love you through your pains and kick you in the butt when you jack up. No matter what you will walk away knowing someone is praying for and ready to love you through it!
                            When I die I want to be called a friend or family member by everyone I came into contact with!!!

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                              Originally posted by Ironguruera View Post
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                              So true.
                              When I die I want to be called a friend or family member by everyone I came into contact with!!!

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