Having teen trouble

[Ironguruera]

Having teen trouble

I will call you when I need a boyfriend extraction!!!

Ill give that little bitch boy a reason to Fucking cut himself! Man that made my blood boil!!

Wtf ever happened to smoking pot and making out like a normal teenager??

I slept In a miniature circus tent last night with my 2.5 yr old toddler cause she refuses to sleep In her bed now. We let her sleep in the room with my wife but she kept waking up and wandering around.
If figured if sleeping in a tiny tent on the hard floor is what this takes to get her at least back in her room......so be it!!

Kids......

I feel for ya layd! Let us know how things go please. Get her some help and lemme know if I need to pack My fold up shovel!

[baby1]

Re: Having teen trouble

all I could do was hold her.

Keep on doing this, there is a lot of power in being held(hugged). Makes me tear up cause i can imagine how you must feel

[itsdanr]

Re: Having teen trouble

I wouldn't try to make it any more of a deal that you have to. If you push too hard she'll rebel. I'd have a sit down and try to understand the "why" then address it. I think most of all she wants to be heard so this is more about letting her talk most often.

she's young, immature and doesn't know how to express herself. she's really angry and depressed about something and this is how she shows it.

I knew two girls personally that cut themselves at this age 15-17 both said they felt like crying but didn't know why so they gave themselves a pain that could be understood. I would hurt, then go away and all was better. It's really odd and i don't understand it.

she might freak out if you drag her to a doctor. My sister did. she hated my mom for dragging her there and telling a stranger what she was doing. For her it was the biggist invasion of privacy possible. I'm not sure how it ever got resolved but she only cut for about 6 months and it passed.

My girlfriend and i got together young, she was 17 we'd been together for a few months and i noticed some cuts. After she made a few hollow excuses as to how they got there i told here to stop bullshitting. her reasoning what when she got so mad with here dad she didn't know what to do it was the only thing that made here feel better.

I didn't play this on smooth at all. I simply told here it was a dumb thing to do it looks fucked up, and to stop. She never did it again. This was several years ago so the only good think i can tell you is it seem to pass pretty quickly. Parenting is no joke. Best of luck.

[itsdanr]

Re: Having teen trouble

Keep on doing this, there is a lot of power in being held(hugged). Makes me tear up cause i can imagine how you must feel

I ran for the arimidex.

[Big Hoss]

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Thanks Hoss it broke my heart when I found out. She was wearing long sleves all winter so no one saw. She has cuts about 1/4" apart from wrist to elbow both arms. When I saw it I couldn't speak all I could do was hold her.

That was probably the best thing to do. Hugs, love, & support go along way.

[Layddually2]

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She finally talked to me last night. She has a twin that is like a superstar at every thing and she isn't and this is one of the reasons she is depressed. She also has a delusion that she is ugly. She said she feels like the only reason I tell her she is beautiful is because I'm her dad. So I have a starting point.

[baby1]

Re: Having teen trouble

She finally talked to me last night. She has a twin that is like a superstar at every thing and she isn't and this is one of the reasons she is depressed. She also has a delusion that she is ugly. She said she feels like the only reason I tell her she is beautiful is because I'm her dad. So I have a starting point.

This is a good thing that she has started to open up to you. I am glad to hear this and I pray she gets better. Makes me my heart hurt when kids feel such pain

[Big Hoss]

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That's good news! The power of prayer is working!

[Layddually2]

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Yes it is Hoss. Thank you GOD.

[MuscleAddiction]

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Glad it is starting to take a turn for the better bro...prayer is a powerful tool for hope and faith!!! Will send some more for your continued success with yours and your baby girls relationship!!! She opened up...keep her open!!! Cuddle up and watch the movie Chasing Mavericks together, the meaning behind the movie will move the both of you..."Live like Jay!"

Much love bro!!!

[Layddually2]

Re: Having teen trouble

Glad it is starting to take a turn for the better bro...prayer is a powerful tool for hope and faith!!! Will send some more for your continued success with yours and your baby girls relationship!!! She opened up...keep her open!!! Cuddle up and watch the movie Chasing Mavericks together, the meaning behind the movie will move the both of you..."Live like Jay!"

Much love bro!!!

Wait is that the surf docu/movie?

[Layddually2]

Re: Having teen trouble

She doesn't know it yet but if things start looking better then she is going to Hawaii next month.

[Vicious 13]

Re: Having teen trouble

U need to ground her take everything away and send her to rehab... I've had my drug problems and this hugs and kisses and being nice won't help. If y feel sorry for her she wins your enabling it. Tough love is what's needed


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[MuscleAddiction]

Re: Having teen trouble

Wait is that the surf docu/movie?

Yes it is...and one of mine and my girls favorite all time movies...you two will love it, and there is something else behind the movies meaning I will let you know later, not on the open forum .

[MuscleAddiction]

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She doesn't know it yet but if things start looking better then she is going to Hawaii next month.

Surf lessons