Sometimes i think im married on paper only

[Layddually2]

Re: Sometimes i think im married on paper only

I just typed a book and deleted it. I'm an ass for sure. but I have good reason to be.

[Ironguruera]

Re: Sometimes i think im married on paper only

I just typed a book and deleted it. I'm an ass for sure. but I have good reason to be.

? Letter to the wife?
It's never a bad idea to write a letter. Just don't sent it that day lol. Come back and add to it and change it when in a different state of mind.

Letters let u organize your thoughts. Stick to your points without interjections. Just realize it can be taken as an attack.......

[chesty]

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And dont be in attack mode in your writing. Need to be from the heart. Thats most impotant.

[baby1]

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? Letter to the wife?
It's never a bad idea to write a letter. Just don't sent it that day lol. Come back and add to it and change it when in a different state of mind.

Letters let u organize your thoughts. Stick to your points without interjections. Just realize it can be taken as an attack.......

I write things down all the time, and then do not send it, lol. Another little thing my smart Mom taught me when I was a kid.

[LebronJ]

Re: Sometimes i think im married on paper only

Although my wife never play computer games, I do understand very well what you feel bro. Trust me we are sharing this feeling like I am being married only on papers... It seems to me that she forgot about me, completely. I started attending gym because I love her and I wanted to look good for her. I changed my entire life for her. Now she acts like I am not even there anymore. Lately I start thinking that I am going to need depression medications. I am very glad that at least I have my gym buddies who help me getting through it easily. You need to find yourself someone who would help you.

[baby1]

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IMO opinion, you have to do what best for you. Take care of yourself for you, go to the gym for you. My only question for anyone struggling in life is "Are YOU happy with who YOU are?" Maybe your wife feels the exact same way you do? There is nothing I like to see better than successful marriages and they can be such a roller coaster and some of the hardest work you ever do. I think part of it's success is 2 people that work at it though cause if it is only 1 chances are it will not last. I wish you the best .

[Lunchbox]

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My wife plays that online game world of war or someshit like that. She pays more attention to that game than me. Even has people call her to let her know her character is in trouble or just to chat. I made a pasta dinner dinner from scratch tonight and she didnt even eat it. The game was too important to her. I dont mind game playing, but wth, no point in me being here or working 4 10s to have a three day weekend. I dint see her anymore than i do when im at work. I give up.

"Honey. I love you and need you. Your attention and affection is something I desire.

If there is something going on that is making you shy away from me and find release on Game of War please talk to me about it so we can work on it together."


If that doesn't work tell her...

"When you go to sleep tonight and your blue skirt drops, I'm gonna pop a boost, put on the new Zeus cores and rally your ass!"

I guarantee.. I fucking bet my life of it that will get her attention.

[MuscleAddiction]

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"Honey. I love you and need you. Your attention and affection is something I desire.

If there is something going on that is making you shy away from me and find release on Game of War please talk to me about it so we can work on it together."


If that doesn't work tell her...

"When you go to sleep tonight and your blue skirt drops, I'm gonna pop a boost, put on the new Zeus cores and rally your ass!"

I guarantee.. I fucking bet my life of it that will get her attention.

Lmao!!!

[chesty]

Re: Sometimes i think im married on paper only

lmaof too.

like tonight though and previous nights. A primer first, I have been with her since 2008. Raised two of her three daughters and spent tens of thousands on her to wrest control of her third daughter from an evil ex. The oldest has physically assaulted me, called me every name in the book and lied on her brothers claiming sexual assault against her landing one in prison for four years. I spent tens of thousands on her for mental health help to no avail.

The middle one we sent away to her dad because she didn't want to be raised by me. Her dad and her called back 6 months later him in tears because she refused to listen her because she wanted my forgiveness and to come back promising me she would me proud. Her mom told me she didn't want her back and I was making a mistake to do so. I bet on the kid.

Now both the middle and younger daughter shit on me every chance they get, their mom keeps telling me in front of them I would never treat my son that way and all I do is discipline and expect good grades, but the wife undermines me in front of them, they all laugh and think I'm a joke while she tells me they are not my kids and your not their parent the complete opposite of when we married.

I have also paid almost 5 grand keeping the older two out of jail.

I give up no matter what I do I am looked upon by her daughters as a joke because of her actions towards me. Ive decided that I will step aside and be landlord as fracas "her" kids are concerned. At least only 4 years till the middle one out of house. Although maybe this summer. The youngest only visits so that is a blessing.